Friday, July 15, 2011

The Story of Matt & May of

I came accross with this post and I was inspired the way how she described their love and life as partners. I absolutely envy couples who were very happy in life and is fulfilled with their marriage. I was never fully contented of the way I was treated as a wife but I'm still hoping it'll going to be okay. I am married with 2 lovely kids but I can say that my marriage life isn't that stable, just like my job.

Got no permission to feature them on my blog but I'm hoping that it's okay with them. But if it's not them it's fine with me to delete this post. Thanks.

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Complicated Marital Status – Understand or Just Leave

Been thinking so many times, whether I have to continue living a life like this with this kind of person. Have used a lot of understanding and I think I’m fed up. But still, I can’t afford to lose him, not because I loved him so much but because of the fact that I’m afraid of living alone later on. I know that he love me less, but what can I do, I am weak. Weak enough to face him and tell him, that it’s over. There are times, I’ve been thinking and been dreaming of living with another guy. What would my life be, if I’m with a different partner? Will, I be happy? Will I be glad? Will I suffer? Confused.

Saturday, March 19, 2011

I Need You Now - My New Fave Song - for Loners Only

sung by: Lady Antebellum

Picture perfect memories,
Scattered all around the floor.
Reaching for the phone cause, I cant fight it any more.
And I wonder if I ever cross your mind.
For me it happens all the time.

Its a quarter after one, Im all alone and I need you now.
Said I wouldnt come but I lost all control and I need you now.
And I dont know how I can do without, I just need you now.

Another shot of whiskey, cant stop looking at the door.
Wishing youd come sweeping in the way you did before.
And I wonder if I ever cross your mind.
For me it happens all the time.

Its a quarter after one, Im a little drunk,
And I need you now.
Said I wouldnt call but I lost all control and I need you now.
And I dont know how I can do without, I just need you now.

Yes Id rather hurt than feel nothing at all.

Hehehehehe... for koging's out there.... datzme ah...

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Ways to Say "I Love You"

Saying I love you takes work. It's hard to be honest, and it's hard to accept the consequences of your honesty and authenticity. It takes time, energy, and commitment to stay connected through all the problems that life and people bring. It can be painful, aggravating, and scary to stick it out through all the ups and downs....but the alternative is worse.

  • Say what you mean when you say I love you. Say why.
  • Learn ways to rekindle the romance.
  • Give space when they're in a bad or sad mood.
  • Ask questions about opinions, feelings, thoughts.
  • Trust your partner enough to cry together.
  • Say "I love you" by giving your full attention when talking.
  • Become their biggest fan and cheerleader!
  • Talk about your day during mealtimes.


Just - Some Lovin' is Enough

Women want to be cuddled every now and then. We don't need affection 24/7, but kind words and sporadic displays of emotions and then are appreciated and keep women surprised and on their toes.

Strategies to Avoid Becoming a Cheater


Most men say I'd never do it and most women believe them. In reality it can happen to anyone, at anytime. Avoid putting yourself in that situation. All of us, at some point of our life or relationship are susceptible to that- what you have to do is first avoid any situation that an affair might happen.

What We "Girls" Loved Most

Buy something nice and/or do something nice.

I'm not talking about an expensive gift or a grand gesture - I'm talking about a little token just to say that you love them. If you're still together, I assume you do. In addition(or even instead) you can do something nice for them. Why not make a nice meal? Why not offer to do a task that they usually do? Trust me, it will be appreciated.

We women, wanted to be pampered and cared. Sad to say, I haven't experienced such in a way that I was fulfilled and is satisfied. But, I still hope that time will come, this certain guy, be it the person I'm with now or any other guy destined to make me happy later on. Frankly speaking, I wasn't happy with my life. Still wondering, how it feels to be loved.. corny as you have read it..but as life is too short..we deserved to be loved.

Is Your Marriage on the Rocks ?

I guess, blogging would be my hobby for now. I love writing when I'm mad, frustrated, depressed and is problematic. I just don't know why. Maybe because that's when I get to express my feelings well, my frustrations in life and my hatred. My life isn't that perfect not until I met this guy..OMG, it gets worst than I expected. I never had imagined myself experiencing life like this. What a mess my life could have been. Do I have to suffer over and over again.?. Guess, I could do nothing about it, but pray. I am fortunate to have a loving father, mother, sisters, brother, nieces, nephews, cousins, relatives and of course kids.. Good thing I have them. I won't be able to survive this kind of life, without their guidance and support mixed with understanding as well.

Poor Marriage Communication Changes Relationships

If you and your spouse had poor communication, this situation might have a very different outcome. Frustration, mistrust, tension, and defensiveness can intensify your conflict. Poor communication skills can perpetuate destructive patterns. You'll find it difficult to work through emotions and solve problems.

Communication is a lot more complex than most people believe. It's about so much more than the words people say. In fact, verbal communication is actually a rather small part of an exchange. Just changing your words may not be enough to help your relationship.

" Badly need it now!. Miscommunication really creates a not so good environment for both of us. All I need is time and space. When can I have it? Can I have it before I lose my mind and think of giving up, just to stay away from you? Do I have to leave my kids and family who cares a lot than you, in order for me to be free..? "

Double Standard - Hate That Word

These words “Double Standard” were annoying. You know why?. For, this has been the reason why there are still lots of guys who practice this kind of behavior or shall I say negative practice. Living in a society where a notion still stands that it is normal for a man to desire many women and yet normal for a woman to desire only one man. Unfortunately, when men cheats, these culprits sees this as normal but when they were the one being cheated on, their anger burst. Why?. That is unfair.

I Wanted it That Way But There's No Way I Could Have It

Couples were madly in love and is afraid of letting go.

Ready to accept the holy matrimony called "marriage" without thinking.

Why is it getting loose...? Sad ending..Terrified..?

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Intro: If I Were a Boy - Just Right ! Yeah Right !

Here's an excerpt from Beyonce's song "If I were a Boy".. I know some ladies who find it hard to handle a man, could relate on these lines.. I've selected lines of which I know really speaks of what a girl wanted to do if ever they were on the part of a boy..and I guess I'd include myself in..

If I were a boy even just for a day
I'd roll out of bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted
And go drink beer with the guys

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man

I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

But you're just a boy
You don't understand
And you don't understand, oh
How it feels to love a girl
Someday you wish you were a better man

You don't listen to her
You don't care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
'Cause you're taking her for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
But you're just a boy